Why Most Goals Fail (And What to Do Instead) Every January, we do the same thing. We set ambitious goals. We feel motivated and hopeful. We tell ourselves this year will be different. Then February arrives, and most of those goals have quietly disappeared. The students who promised to turn in homework on time are back to old patterns. The reading goal you set for yourself gets buried under lesson planning. The intention to incorporate more movement into your classroom falls a

Why Winter Break Transitions Hit Different Let me paint a picture you probably recognize: It's the week before winter break. Your carefully established routines have dissolved. Students are bouncing off the walls. Half your class is already mentally on vacation, and the other half is stressed about changes in their home routines. Meanwhile, you're trying to finish assessments, close out the semester, and somehow maintain instructional momentum when everyone—including you—is r

Why Some Celebrations Miss the Mark I used to think celebration was simple. Praise the A students, applaud the test scores, hand out the awards at the end of the year. Done. Then I started paying attention to student reactions. The kid who shrank when I called attention to their perfect score. The student who worked incredibly hard to move from an F to a C but got no recognition because a C isn't "award-worthy." The ones who achieved amazing social growth but never heard abou

The Real Story Behind This Semester's Growth Let's be honest—when December rolls around, most of us are running on fumes. We're thinking about winter break, planning for next semester, and maybe counting down the days until we can sleep past 6 AM. But before we close the books on this semester, there's something worth doing: helping students reflect on where they've been and how far they've come. And I'm not just talking about academic progress, though that matters too. I'm t