Why Resolutions Don't Work (Especially for Kids) Every January, we do this thing where we declare what we're going to change about ourselves. We're going to exercise more. Eat healthier. Be more organized. Read more books. And then by February, most of us have given up. Now imagine that cycle for your child. They declare they're going to "get better at math" or "make more friends" and then... nothing really changes. Because declarations without plans are just wishes. And fail

The Achievement Trap We're All Caught In We live in a culture obsessed with measurable success. GPA. Test scores. Competition results. College acceptance rates. And look, I'm not saying those things don't matter. But when they become the only things we celebrate, we send a dangerous message to our kids. We tell them that their value is tied to performance. That being a good person counts less than being a high achiever. That effort only matters if it results in visible succes