Let's start with a scene you might recognize: It's January, a child announces they're going to read 100 books this year, practice piano every single day, and make straight A's. Two weeks later? The books are gathering dust, the piano is silent, and everyone feels a bit defeated. Sound familiar? Here's the thing, goal-setting with kids is tricky because we're often working against two extremes. Either the goals are so vague they're meaningless ("I want to do better in school")