Think about the last time a child succeeded at something. Made the team, got an A, won the game. There was probably celebration, right? Of course. Wins deserve recognition. But here's the question: what about all the times they tried hard and didn't win? The test they studied for but still failed. The team they didn't make despite practicing for months. The recital where they froze up even though they'd practiced perfectly at home. If we only celebrate the wins, we're acciden